It used to be customary for us to have Thanksgiving with the Bs, but during this pandemic, DL and I are home alone. To be honest, it's kind of nice and peaceful. When I was growing up in my family of three, my mom sometimes lamented that we weren't like other Chinese families with aunties, uncles, grandparents, cousins, etc, etc squabbling around a giant house. But I never minded. I don't particularly care for either crowds or Noise. The only thing I feel sad about with our two-person Thanksgiving is that I wish I could invite over some single friends or other small families to feast together, but alas! I may have to start a new tradition, separate from the Bs, and do my own Thanksgivings from now on. We can still do Christmas together. I'll express how much I have appreciated their love, but that now that I'm a married adult I'm ready to strike out for Thanksgivings. *sad smile*
When I was growing up, my mom would always invite over a bunch of random people who had nowhere else to go. At the time, I didn't think it was anything special, but in retrospect, I really appreciate those memories, because even though we were poor, she knew enough that when we had a big-ass turkey and more than enough to eat, the only appropriate thing to do was to share it! And of course it's not just about the food. It's about not being alone on a traditional, family-centered holiday, and coming together with whomever you come together with! My mom was a new immigrant at the time, but she had that part down pat.
My sister apparently has not roasted a turkey in many years, but I hope she does one day, and invites over a bunch of random loners, so my niece will also get to experience that kind of Thanksgiving one day. (I know she reads this blog, so hint-hint!! :~D)
Well here are dog photos. Look! They match in chirality!
To the left, to the left!
6 comments:
So nice to have you two and dogs on Zoom. Those on our Thanksgiving table before -- Sue and Jamie, Freeman, and a few others, but they are all I can remember. Glad to know you appreciated it. I wish to have a roasted turkey leg.. Maybe next Thanksgiving I will roast one..
Just remembered another person -- Denis the Menace :-)
Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family. What a lovely meal especially the cranberries and the Pi Pie !
Among our Zoom gathering, you were the only one cooked up a full meal :-) It was great Thanksgiving spirit. LOVE it
@gina, Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours!
@mdr, I would like to cook you guys a full meal. Maybe next year, either here or there. I wonder if B would visit Alaska in November though. Hmm
Not B nor S, B had S wear ski hat going outside when it was 62F
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